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Question

We do not drink, nor do our families.

Just about every wedding I have been to has served alcohol.

I would prefer not to serve alcohol,

but am thinkng we have to. Do we?

Answer

If you ask most people, a glass of wine or a signature cocktail

goes hand in hand with a wedding reception...and a jovial good time.

Of course, many venues also "encourage" a bar option,

as it adds to their bottom line. That said, no where is it written

that alcohol must be served at a wedding. It is merely your job

to provide the guests with food and beverage.

Whether that beverage is alcoholic is entirely up to you.

Of course, realize if you do not serve alcohol,

you may "hear about it" from some guests

-yes, it would be tacky for them to say anything,

but people never surprise me! -

and, let's be honest, the alcohol (usually) plays a part

in getting the dancing and party started. So as long as you realize

the minor implications of not serving alcohol,

and you are comfortable with your decision, go for it!

You may want to choose a sparkling wine,
or "memorable" beverage for the toast.
(a sparkling soda that matches the wedding colors, perhaps!)
The toast should always be special!

As a side note, if you choose to not serve alcohol,

keep it at that. I have been asked by brides if it is

OK to not offer hosted alcoholic beverages, but to offer

the guests a no-host (cash) bar if they want alcohol.

Don't do it. Respect and adhere to your decision.

Oh...before I go...if there is no alcohol,

offer the guests something special, such as a gourmet coffee bar,

a smoothie bar, signature lemonades (rosemary, strawberry, etc.),

specialty fruit juices, or sparkling Italian sodas...

there is no reason you cannot make it fun and interesting!

Happy Planning!

Holly

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